Motherhood is messy. and challenging.
and crazy. and sleepless. and giving. and still unbelievably beautiful
If you are reading this and you would like to follow my journey as a first time mama, I think it’s essential that you know a little more about me! Sometimes social media can give us a different impression on someone’s life and I don’t want any of my readers thinking my life has always been perfect. Yes, I have never been SO happy in my entire life and I have also never felt so much love in my life, but I am here to be real and let you know that it has not always been that way for me.
Looking back at my own childhood, it was never rainbows and butterflies it was purely surviving. My father was very abusive and ultimately it led my mother, who was once an incredible nurse, to have a severe mental illness. And if it couldn’t be any more difficult being a kid, I was also a victim of sexual abuse. I think when it comes to the way I grew up, I use to close up and be ashamed because it wasn’t your average childhood. But I am DONE not feeling good enough or letting my past shape me as a mom or wife. It is time to SPEAK UP so that anyone can feel empowered to know that they too CAN make a difference and they are worthy of life’s greatest gift, LOVE. That is why I want to help others that have ever felt any type of fear letting it get the best of you. Just because we have endured things, whatever it may be, does not mean it’s too late to create your own story and have a new beginning. Let go of what is no longer serving you and choose to be HAPPY! Surround yourself with positive loving genuine people, hobbies that make your soul happy, and spread kindness wherever you go and I promise you will find the light. Don’t ever be afraid to ask for help! Being vulnerable can often be scary but it is the key to letting new love in and allowing someone to see us for who we really are. If there is anyway I can help please reach out and I would love to help guide you in the right direction.
Creating Your Own Destiny
Motherhood and finding true love has changed my life in such incredible ways, giving me purpose and life long fulfillment. It has made me realize that I was destined for this. That it is my passion to show the love I did not have as a child and to help prevent other children from experiencing this. It has also lead me to make healthier lifestyle changes. Who would have known bringing a little soul into the world and watching them blossom meant you would grow along the way too!